The{second}is the worst

The sound of a heart breaking is crazy; the first time is hard, it hurts so much, one can only hope to never feel it again. Then there is it, creeps up on you usually the second time like a shadow in the night; breathing down your back subtly until it has you in its grip. There is a strong hold it will get, the second is the greatest pain, hurting worse than the first, teaching you how to handle the next. Those who reach this second heart break are the strongest people to be known; strength is not in numbers, it is in will. If you can will yourself to move forward, no matter what happens across your path, you will prove your strength of heart. 

Movies teach females at a young age, it is okay to walk around naive, it is okay to be hurt, it is okay to let a man treat you like crud; males are taught it is okay to treat women bad, take care of all their needs and wants before taking a chance on love, it's okay to walk away from the best woman to come into their life because they will be able to walk back to said woman and win her back. There are so many lies taught these days through movies; glamorizing the idea of everything will work out in the end, if it hasn't worked out yet, it's not the end. There is truth to this saying, also lie.

Truth is, if everything hasn't worked out, yes it is not the end; lie is, everything will not work out in the end. The end comes when your life ends, your life will not end because of a heart break, it will simply be as miserable as you allow it to be. Sometimes situations will make it difficult to be okay, they will make your heart pain. hurt, your emotions go mad with all sorts of mixtures: hurt, anger, confusion, denial, longing, hate, love, and so many others, and sometimes you can have so much fun you forget of the feeling mixture you feel. 

Being alone will escalate these feelings history shows; going back to the cause of pain will only intensify the pain again if it has not been fully resolved. The sound of a heart breaking is crazy; the first time is hard, it hurts so much, one can only hope to never feel it again.